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The Year of Art and Things I've Never Done Before

Welcome to Jan's Birthday Blog. This blog exists to keep me planning and taking action, share this year with those who are interested, and also to invite you to do things you have always wanted to do but never have. What are you /I putting off till it is the "right time"? What is it, that if you and I look back at our lives years from now we will regret not having done?

Please share what you dream of doing or have taken action on and gotten done. Tell me what you are up to. Make suggestions that I can add to my list! Use some of my ideas. Join me or invite me to do something with you.

I invite you to consider that all any of us has is right now.... there is no "later". This blog is a reminder of that for me.

(I am not promoting anything that is reckless, illegal, or negative! I am out to create life-enhancing experiences. Please plan accordingly.)

Things I've Never Done

  • Take a train somewhere DONE! - To NYC for Lauren's Advanced Course. 2014 Thanks for the invite honey.
  • Create a blog - DONE!
  • Audition for pro musical theater - DONE! TWICE
  • Get a hot stone massage- DONE for the 1st time but NOT the last! See link for PCCHH
  • Raise money for a cause -DONE! Want to do more. Donated a quilt that auctioned for over $300 For Hair Peace Charities - see link. Vagina Monologues raised money for women & girls in Pittsburgh and around the world!
  • Go to a Chiropractor -DONE! Thanks Dr. Kukich UPDATE: began regular chiropractic treatment 2 days after I bought that house. Hmmm- any relationship to those two events?
  • Go to a spa with Lauren - DONE! We have the pretty feet to prove it.
  • Work for a floral design company - See link to Mocha Rose. I'M HIRED!
  • Take my daughters to New York - DONE! 3rd weekend in May.
  • Yoga -DONE with first session. One session does not a practice make but I am on my way. YOGA update November 2011 - started going to Yoga On Freemont. My first week I went 4 times. I love it. I feel more open and my body is smiling! 2011 update : Yoga on Fremont, 2 times a week average. Good stuff!
  • Go to an "Iron Chef" restaurant. DONE! Bar Americain in NYC - Chef Bobby Flay.
  • Buy or build my dream house - I bought a 1925 Tudor Revival. It needs work before I move in. That work is creating another list of things I have never done before.
  • Tear down a wall - DONE! See photos of bathroom demolition.
  • Operate a steam shovel or some such machine. SOoooo DONE! Thank you Mike Isbir, Mark Miller and crew. See photos below.
  • Hop in the car for a trip with no idea where I am going FINALLY DONE! ORB to 51 S to 88S, eventually to Maryland and back
  • Dip my toes in the Pacific Ocean _ SOOO DONE!! Thank You Wendy!
  • Throw a pot - (on a wheel, not at a wall) DONE! Pittsburgh Center for the Arts 4 week crash course with my pottin buddy, Lauren.
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  • Detonate something
  • See Lindsay Benner live
  • Be an 'agent' for an Improv Everywhere mission
  • Learn to make glass beads
  • Teach my dog to make friends and play well with others - see Animal Friends link
  • Learn to weld - turns out I know two people that can weld
  • Hire a talent agent
  • Drive a classic Thunderbird - preferably Starmist Blue
  • Paint a mural
  • Fly a plane
  • Learn to sail
  • Drive a race car - Have I told you about Women-Drivers.com?
  • Be on TV
  • Write a book
  • Go surfing
  • Sky diving
  • Travel to Spain, Greece, Morocco, South America, The Grand Canyon, Alaska, Hawaii, pretty much anywhere in the US...
  • Eat vegetarian for a week
  • Get a tattoo
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  • BLOG BONUS - Stuff I didn't know I wanted to do:
  • Work as a standardized patient educator. Had no idea that's what I wanted to do. DONE
  • Do home staging to get a house sold - twice yet. Thanks for asking, Justin and Tom
  • Ride a lap at the Vintage Grand Prix in Schenley Park - DONE!
  • Go to the James Taylor / Carol King concert at the last event at the Civic Arena DONE! It was the BEST! Thank you Diane
  • Buy a share in a Community Supported Agriculture farm. DONE! Kretchsmann's to be exact. Thanks Edie and Mad.
  • Visit St. Anthony's Chapel in Troy Hill. DONE! Thank you Paula!
  • Make a web site - DONE - will be unveiled soon
  • Gravity Hill - DONE!
  • Eat a raisinette dipped in hot sauce - Done! I was double dog dared. I had to.

About Me

Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
I was born on June 27th, 1960. Quick math will tell you I turned 50 in 2010. That milestone has inspired what I am up to this year. Now that the birthday has passed, what do I count down next?

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Interview with Mocha Rose

I had an interview at Mocha Rose today. (see the link on the right of the blog) This is a floral design company. They are growing quickly and for good reason. I think they have a great value set and they live their values. I think the interview went really well. I had not had an interview for over 10 years so I was nervous but I was also really excited. I consider it very good news that she prefers to hire people who do not have formal florist shop training or experience. She operates differently than that type of business and she wants to train her people in her own methods. Guess what? I happen to have no formal training whatsoever! Yaaaa me! I love what they are up to. If I had a business of my own I can see running it the way they do. And I really am not in the mood to run a business on my own. I've done that. Thank you April and Jill!

Hard work and dedication





Acting is hard work! I knew that people devoted themselves to their acting craft. But when I auditioned I got a closer look at what it takes. I got clear that I was not willing to do what it would take to develop my voice and learn dance moves to the level that I might be cast in a professional musical production. My guess is that even with voice training it would likely not be enough to be cast in a musical on a big stage. I love musical theater and I will be sticking to the community level. I love community theater. I love the people and the process. In my acting classes I have learned how much work it takes. Characters are studied, and learned. Seems to me the best actors are the ones who know things about their character that the audience will never know directly but will see clearly. The actor will know what their goal is with each interaction on stage. They know how their character reacts. They will know the details of the character's life from long before the story ever began. They may know what body part the character dwells in or leads with. And then pretending to be someone else, and memorize lines and make it look like it is the first time the words have ever left their mouths. Lots of work indeed. Every time I've had a role on stage I have gotten something huge for myself. And I am also getting that in acting I get to relate to people in a way unlike any other. I love that part. There is something about risking making a complete fool of oneself too....

Saturday, March 27, 2010

St Anthony's Chapel on Troy Hill

Thank you Paula! What an interesting, if not slightly bizarre place. The chapel ceiling is particularly beautiful. Stations of the cross.... I've seen a number of them. None quite like this. Then there are the relics. The stuff that they have contained in there, and what the docent Sister says about the stuff tends to raise questions for me but in the end they are all questions that I have no intentions of asking. There is no point really. Just take the place as the marvel that it is. I don't want to spill any beans for the curious. You can Google St Anthony's or you can just go. There are limited access hours so plan ahead. And see if you can plan a tour because Sister is part of the experience as far as I am concerned. I'll give you a hint. Not a good idea to let Kismet loose in the place. She would find too much to chew on if she could get at it.
Love to all and thanks again Paula for sharing that with me.

By the way.... This was something that a friend suggested to me. The blog bonus is that I got to spend some time with her that we don't often spend. Soooo everyone, other ideas will be welcomed and happily entertained.

Friday, March 12, 2010

Go to a spa with Lauren.



We went to Bedford Springs in Bedford PA. Beautiful surroundings, great food, comfy bed and it all just smells so heavenly. Lauren and I had a wonderful time. We had our pedicures together and our toes look fabulous. So great to get to spend time, just her and I. OK, she was texting so someone else was along with us. My message - be where you are and be with the one you are with. Did not let corporate ladies who refused to use their "Spa Voices" spoil the Zen of my day.


BONUS - We rolled up Gravity Hill. Never heard of it? http://www.gravityhill.com/. ( I personally would call it more of a slope than a hill). You put your car in neutral, and your car starts rolling "up" hill. Pour water on it, it runs "up". Balls roll "up" too. It's pretty funny.

Monday, March 8, 2010

Chiropractor

After a thorough discussion of my history, there I was teetering on a narrow table. Dr. Kukich promised he would not let me fall off. He was good to his word. Face down, lift the leg, lift the other leg, face up, bend your hip, and the other hip, other table, lie down, sit up, back to the other table, on your left side, twist, squish, on the right side, stretch, lift, twist, pop! This is a poor explanation of the work that Chiropractors do, but is reflective of my memory. The session went quickly. I left feeling taller and lighter and the leg that was one inch shorter when I walked in was pretty much even with the other when I walked out. Dig it! Should also add that the right hip motion seems unchanged, that occasional leg numbness... time will tell. I felt well cared for throughout the whole thing. Thanks Mad.

I'll let you know if things evolve.